Writing has been the balm within my grief. The place where I feel it, look at it, and transmute it into words. My wish is that these lines help you feel seen in your grief too.

I am here with you, in this.

The Pharmacy Oct 07, 2020

It’s not the pharmacy that I usually go to. But I take a different route home and find myself in fro...

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The Radical Beauty of Love Jan 12, 2020

I met Bri when I was twenty-seven and I fell for him hard. We loved each other like crazy, we made a...

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A Window into Grief: What Does Processing the Death of my Young Partner Really Look Like? Jan 09, 2020

Since my Brian died nine months ago, my mother has asked me a few times what “processing” his death ...

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On Grief, Cancer, & Cars Dec 05, 2019

My love, Brian, was an excellent driver. I mean, really excellent. When I met him, I absolutely hate...

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A Message for my Fellow Widows About Sex Dec 01, 2019

Here’s the elephant in the room that makes widowhood different from other types of grief: Most widow...

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Your Ashes Oct 10, 2019

Bri, you made everything fun. Do you remember that when you were dying, you asked me how we could ma...

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The Bricks and Mortar of Grief Sep 01, 2019

It has been a week of intimately getting to know the bricks and mortar of grief.

My daughter has bee...

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