Welcome to I See You, Sister.
🤍 You're not alone 🤍
Let's move through the waves together.
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Ellen
I don’t know where I would be or how I would have survived without Mira. She has shown me my path when I was more lost & broken than I had ever been. Her advice has made me feel seen & prepared for the years to come.
Amy
I've opened up in a way that I hadn't been able to before. Mira curates such beautiful groups of likeminded widows. I cannot recommend her highly enough. The investment has been 100% worth it.
Danielle
Feeling seen & heard in this experience is priceless. Mira is an incredible leader in this widow space and I will continue to sign up her programs because of the love she puts behind every single thing that she does.
For the widow who is craving a steady rhythm within this chaos, grief-literate-tools, & a sense of belonging.
There is nothing wrong with you. You're not broken, you're grieving.
Sink into connection with Mira & a community of the most supportive widow sisters.
A Message from Mira (from my heart to yours)...
My beautiful widow sister - I see you in this pain because I know this same pain too. It’s okay that it hurts. There is nothing wrong with you.
Integration of your loss will happen, it is happening. And there is no expiry date when your grief is no longer valid. Sometimes this just feels utterly impossible.
My wish for you is that you see yourself clearly, without shame or the pressure to be better & do better - that I know we so often place on our already over-burdened shoulders.
You are carrying enough already. You're doing such a good job.
Rebuilding will happen.
And not in one magical moment when you are entirely healed.
It will happen within & in-between the waves. It's all one messy experience of wild growth & change. And when we're honest about our experience, that's when we rebuild authentically.
We all have an internal wisdom.
We are each our own grief expert.
We don’t need pressure & we don’t need to be fixed.
We need connection.
We need to be heard.
We need to be seen.
Exactly as we are.
The power of connection between widows is transformative.
You are enough.
Love, Mira
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My Story
In 2019, my love, Brian, died after a horrific seven-week cancer journey. I was left alone with our then almost three-year-old daughter, a broken sense of self, and a heart that was both expanded & utterly destroyed.
Nothing made sense in my life anymore.
And yes, people around me saw that I’d lost him but what they didn’t understand, was that I had also lost me too.
I remember lying on the floor sobbing & just wishing for even one widow friend. Just one person, who could understand the depths of this pain.
In that moment, it felt like I was the only widow in the world.
Building the I See You, Sister Community came out of that moment, lying on the floor and feeling entirely alone.
All I wanted at that time, was a space like this.
A space where my grief could be held, honoured, seen, and loved - with other women who got it.
Love From Our Members...
Hear it in their words.
Sarah
The I See You, Sister Community is the only space I have where I can voice anything I am struggling with, and get others’ input & perspective. It is a safe space for us to express it all - no judgement, and oh-so-much love and empathy from Mira & the other widows. The financial investment is absolutely worth it.
I signed up for the ISYS Community because I was desiring connection with other widows & also a connection with Mira. It has been SUCH a blessing to have joined. In my grief, I’ve felt so jaded by the "outside world" – by their ignorance and lack of understanding. I’ve often felt hurt after sharing my struggles with others, but everyone in the ISYS Community gets it. It is an amazing feeling and an amazing support. There is no pressure to be active all the time & the call recordings are always there to watch. Mira has created a loving space & is a wonderful soul. I am so grateful for how authentic and real she is, how she openly shares her own journey, and how she has such a beautiful approach to widowhood. She somehow stays deeply connected to every single member and I can feel she genuinely cares and always responds to anything I post. You are not just another face in the community, she really invests and knows you and cares about your journey.
Jamie
I love listening to Mira speak about grief – she's so genuine and compassionate and she goes with the flow of what the community needs during all the workshops & calls.
I signed up for the I See You Sister Community because I needed somewhere to turn to in my everyday experience of widowhood, whenever I needed it. I love knowing that the community is always there & available to me. I especially appreciate the live calls and try to attend as many as I can. I like that they include somatic work and value the connection with the other women in the community. I like that the workshops & calls I previously attended are available on the platform for me to revisit whenever I want, because they are so helpful and I don't always remember everything that we have covered. I've been working with Mira for years now & although I have attended other coach’s grief programs too – they just don't meet my needs the way Mira's programs do.
Dina
I am very happy to be part of this community and financially it is 100% worth it. I would definitely recommend Mira as a grief coach. I am very thankful to you, Mira.
Since I found Mira and joined the ISYS Community, I have found a a sense of connection with her & the other women – who are going through the same experience as me. When I signed up for the community, I was in a very acute stage of grief – and connecting with real people going through this too, has encouraged me so much. It is so helpful to remember that these women too are sleeping, eating, raising their children if they have them, etc. Just like me. Since joining ISYS, I have begun to communicate with my inner self in a different way. Simple tasks like buying groceries or going to the gas station, often felt like a psychological challenge. Now I grieve in waves and know that I have our ISYS calls to look forward to – where I will join & listen, and when I want to, share.
Patricia
Indeed, I do feel "seen" and felt, just like this community's name, "I See You, Sister."
After attending one of Mira's workshops, I didn't even need to think about signing up for her community. Mira's manner, experience with and knowledge about grief, and most of all – her sensitivity – have been immensely helpful to me since my partner's death. And it's not just Mira, but the entire community, from whom I've learned about this grief journey. Not feeling so alone has helped me find more balance, as the ground continues to shift beneath my being. Such collective and attentive care and compassion is helping to carry me.
Olgu
Mira's I See You, Sister Community has been a great source of support for me. Thank you for all the hard work you put into this Mira!
I joined because I was seeking the companionship of other widows and I had been following Mira for a while. Her somatic work (specific to grief), openness, vulnerability and sincerity really appealed to me. Also, I wanted to connect with other widows. The zoom calls, workshops, and the community space (where you can talk openly and freely of your experience, ask questions and learn from others who are in a similar boat) – really create a sense of support and companionship.
Inside the Community, No Topic Is Off Limits
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We see & hear each other - really & truly.
We honour the depth of pain that is unique to widowhood, from a place of non-judgement & compassion.
We explore identity - how everything shifts and how slowly, this can begin to unravel a journey of profound inner work & yes, even remarkable growth.
We share openly about our partners, our forever love, & our ongoing connection to them.
We honour & centre the body always - through inter-woven guided somatic work & nervous system regulation practices.
We move forward together, our losses & great loves in one hand, life firmly held in the other.
YES PLEASEHERE’S WHAT YOU'LL GET WHEN YOU JOIN...
The I See You, Sister Community
Everything conveniently lives on a private community platform & app, just for us. I can't wait to see you inside.
The Grief Workshop Library
You'll get immediate access to a full (and growing!) vault of grief workshops & educational content, which you can watch or listen to whenever you like. We have three main "Layers" or pathways through our workshop content on a wide variety of topics related to understanding & navigating life as a widow.
The Live Calls with Mira
Lean in & receive deeper support as Mira teaches & guides on community calls (2-3 per month). Calls range from topic-specific workshops to integration calls to small breakout rooms to somatic sessions - & so much more. Many of our calls are recorded so you can catch the replay if you can't join live. Some are not, to preserve intimacy.
The Community Chat Spaces
These also live inside the I See You, Sister app. Here's where we can connect, share, & receive support 24/7. Ask questions any time and receive ongoing connection & guidance from Mira, as well your fellow community members. Here's where we say all the things we can't say to anyone else - no topic is off limits & zero judgement.
The Private Podcast
Voice Notes With Mira is a new mini podcast, available exclusively inside the I See You, Sister Community. Ask me any questions you have and I will answer them! Some episodes will also just be about things I'm navigating or moving through in my own grief.
The Somatic Video Library
Yup, you heard that right! When you join the Community, you'll get access to Mira's entire Somatic Video Library, with over eleven hours of pre-recorded somatic video content you can follow along with whenever you need, created specifically with widows in mind.
The Guest Speaker Sessions
We supplement the membership by inviting guest experts in to lead bonus workshops & panel conversations. Past topics include Traditional Chinese Medicine's Perspective on Moving Through Trauma & Grief, Stigmatized Loss, & our much anticipated Re-Partnered Widows Panel.
Tell Me More About The Grief Workshop Library
We have three main "Layers" or pathways through our workshop content. All found right within the I See You, Sister app, which you get access to as soon as you join.
Pick & choose which material resonates for you. Move at your own pace.
Layer 1: Understanding Your Grief
Why do I feel the way I feel?
Our first layer of workshop content offers space to explore understanding what is happening inside your grief.
Here you’ll find workshops & teachings that help you make meaning of your experience, explore different grief frameworks, and gently orient yourself within what may often feel confusing or overwhelming.
Sessions offer psychological context & expand how we understand grief through cultural or relational lenses.
I think of this layer as an invitation to begin making sense of your experience, at your own pace.
Layer 2: Tending To Your Grief
How do I take care of myself right now?
Our second layer of workshop content is focused on your inner world - how you relate to yourself as you move through grief.
Here you’ll find workshops that support emotional capacity, self-trust, nervous system awareness, boundaries, and the ongoing process of learning how to be with yourself through loss.
You can return here whenever you need grounding, perspective, or reminders of how to tend to yourself in the midst of everything you are carrying.
Layer 3: Navigating Your Grief
How do I move through my life alongside this grief?
Our third layer of workshop content supports you with the real-life experiences that arise as you continue moving through the world after loss.
Here you’ll find workshops on relationships, identity shifts, family dynamics, changing friendships, love after loss, ongoing connection with your partner, and the many ways life continues to unfold.
I think of this layer as the space where grief meets life - where you’re not just understanding or tending grief internally, but navigating the external realities of being in the world.
There Are Also Some Bonuses!
SUPPORT CIRCLES
Led by Mira or our Community Mentor, Katherine, these monthly circles offer an opportunity to share & hold space with one another. These are not recorded.
GUIDED EXPERIENCES
Our first guided experience is ready for you to begin, any time you want. A Five-Day Self-Care Reset, available for you to start as soon as you join the Community.
CURATED GRIEF PLAYLIST
There's nothing like music! These are the songs that have most helped me navigate & move through my grief.
HANDOUTS & RESOURCES
Go deeper with these totally optional supplemental handouts, worksheets, & journal prompts.
A sneak peak at some of the most beloved workshops in our library...
THE NEXT BREATH
Concrete & non-overwhelming tips for navigating early grief.
CONNECTED
Explore ways to maintain connection with your partner while learning how to live in this new reality.
MORE THAN STRONG
Find your inner courage & fortitude on your own terms, without the toxic platitudes.
FAQ's
WHAT EXACTLY DO I GET TODAY WHEN I JOIN?
WHEN & HOW OFTEN ARE THE LIVE CALLS?
HOW MUCH SOMATIC CONTENT IS THERE IN THE COMMUNITY?
I'M WORRIED I WON'T FIT IN WITH THE OTHER WIDOWS...?
IS THIS TRULY A CANCEL-ANY-TIME MEMBERSHIP?
DO YOU OFFER SCHOLARSHIPS?
Meet our Community Mentor, Katherine...
Katherine Brito is a widow, grief coach, & self-love advocate. She offers compassionate grief support for women recreating a life that honours their enduring love and connection to their person.
Katherine leads some of our bonus Support Circles inside the community. She offers such a gentle and understanding energy to the Community and we are so incredibly lucky to have her!
Katherine’s husband Tony loved playing the piano & cooking… in that specific order. 🤣
If you have been craving a gentle & authentic space to explore your grief -
I'd love for you to join us.
Hope is possible & also - this is so, so hard. Here is where you'll find other people who get it.
