Welcome to I See You, Sister, Featuring Our December Self-Care Reset.
🤍 You're not alone 🤍
Let's move through the waves together.
For the Pouring Into You Self-Care Challenge details, just keep scrolling down.
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HOW IT WORKS
1. I'll re-release the PIY Workshop this month. When you tune in, you'll receive helpful tips about how to work through some of the blocks that can prevent us from practicing self-care as widows, the five main sub-types of self-care, a mantra I use regularly that helps me, & some super clear strategies that will support us when we do the 5-Day PIY Experience.
2. The first week in December, we will do the 5-Day PIY Self-Care Challenge together. I will lead us through - with live calls, voice notes, support & guidance - all inside the ISYS app. Don't worry, it will be gentle & open, we will meet you wherever you are.
3. The PIY Workshop & Challenge will take place inside the community, so you do have to join to participate, but you can always cancel after the first month if you don't want to stay inside once the challenge is complete.
Let's enter the holiday season in as grounded & self-connected a place as possible.
JOIN THE COMMUNITY FOR THE 5-DAY CHALLENGE
Ellen
I don’t know where I would be or how I would have survived without Mira. She has shown me my path when I was more lost & broken than I had ever been. Her advice has made me feel seen & prepared for the years to come.
Amy
I've opened up in a way that I hadn't been able to before. Mira curates such beautiful groups of likeminded widows. I cannot recommend her highly enough. The investment has been 100% worth it.
Danielle
Feeling seen & heard in this experience is priceless. Mira is an incredible leader in this widow space and I will continue to sign up her programs because of the love she puts behind every single thing that she does.
For the widow who is craving a steady rhythm within this madness, actual grief-literate-tools, & a sense of belonging.
There is nothing wrong with you. You're not broken, you're grieving.
Sink into connection with Mira & a community of the most supportive widow sisters.
A Message from Mira (from my heart to yours)...
My beautiful widow sister - I see you in this pain because I know this same pain too. It’s okay that it hurts. There is nothing wrong with you.
Integration of your loss will happen, it is happening. And there is no expiry date when your grief is no longer valid. Sometimes this just feels utterly impossible.
My wish for you is that you see yourself clearly, without shame or the pressure to be better & do better - that I know we so often place on our already over-burdened shoulders.
You are carrying enough already. You're doing such a good job.
Rebuilding will happen.
And not in one magical moment when you are entirely healed.
It will happen within & in-between the waves. It's all one messy experience of wild growth & change. And when we're honest about our experience, that's when we rebuild authentically.
We all have an internal wisdom.
We are each our own grief expert.
We don’t need pressure & we don’t need to be fixed.
We need connection.
We need to be heard.
We need to be seen.
Exactly as we are.
The power of connection between widows is transformative.
You are enough.
Love, Mira
Join Our December Pouring Into You Self-Care Reset & So Much More.
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My Story
In 2019, my love, Brian, died after a horrific seven-week cancer journey. I was left alone with our then almost three-year-old daughter, a broken sense of self, and a heart that was both expanded & utterly destroyed.
Nothing made sense in my life anymore.
And yes, people around me saw that I’d lost him but what they didn’t understand, was that I had also lost me too.
I remember lying on the floor sobbing & just wishing for even one widow friend. Just one person, who could understand the depths of this pain.
In that moment, it felt like I was the only widow in the world.
Building the I See You, Sister Community came out of that moment, lying on the floor and feeling entirely alone.
All I wanted at that time, was a space like this.
A space where my grief could be held, honoured, seen, and loved - with other women who got it.
Love From Our Members...
Hear it in their words.
Sarah
The I See You, Sister Community is the only space I have where I can voice anything I am struggling with, and get others’ input & perspective. It is a safe space for us to express it all - no judgement, and oh-so-much love and empathy from Mira & the other widows. The financial investment is absolutely worth it.
I signed up for the ISYS Community because I was desiring connection with other widows & also a connection with Mira. It has been SUCH a blessing to have joined. In my grief, I’ve felt so jaded by the "outside world" – by their ignorance and lack of understanding. I’ve often felt hurt after sharing my struggles with others, but everyone in the ISYS Community gets it. It is an amazing feeling and an amazing support. There is no pressure to be active all the time & the call recordings are always there to watch. Mira has created a loving space & is a wonderful soul. I am so grateful for how authentic and real she is, how she openly shares her own journey, and how she has such a beautiful approach to widowhood. She somehow stays deeply connected to every single member and I can feel she genuinely cares and always responds to anything I post. You are not just another face in the community, she really invests and knows you and cares about your journey.
Jamie
I love listening to Mira speak about grief – she's so genuine and compassionate and she goes with the flow of what the community needs during all the workshops & calls.
I signed up for the I See You Sister Community because I needed somewhere to turn to in my everyday experience of widowhood, whenever I needed it. I love knowing that the community is always there & available to me. I especially appreciate the live calls and try to attend as many as I can. I like that they include somatic work and value the connection with the other women in the community. I like that the workshops & calls I previously attended are available on the platform for me to revisit whenever I want, because they are so helpful and I don't always remember everything that we have covered. I've been working with Mira for years now & although I have attended other coach’s grief programs too – they just don't meet my needs the way Mira's programs do.
Dina
I am very happy to be part of this community and financially it is 100% worth it. I would definitely recommend Mira as a grief coach. I am very thankful to you, Mira.
Since I found Mira and joined the ISYS Community, I have found a a sense of connection with her & the other women – who are going through the same experience as me. When I signed up for the community, I was in a very acute stage of grief – and connecting with real people going through this too, has encouraged me so much. It is so helpful to remember that these women too are sleeping, eating, raising their children if they have them, etc. Just like me. Since joining ISYS, I have begun to communicate with my inner self in a different way. Simple tasks like buying groceries or going to the gas station, often felt like a psychological challenge. Now I grieve in waves and know that I have our ISYS calls to look forward to – where I will join & listen, and when I want to, share.
Patricia
Indeed, I do feel "seen" and felt, just like this community's name, "I See You, Sister."
After attending one of Mira's workshops, I didn't even need to think about signing up for her community. Mira's manner, experience with and knowledge about grief, and most of all – her sensitivity – have been immensely helpful to me in the year after my spouse's death. And it's not just Mira, but the entire community, from whom I've learned about this grief journey. Not feeling so alone has helped me find more balance, as the ground continues to shift beneath my being. Such collective and attentive care and compassion is helping to carry me.
Olgu
Mira's I See You, Sister Community has been a great source of support for me. Thank you for all the hard work you put into this Mira!
I joined because I was seeking the companionship of other widows and I had been following Mira for a while. Her somatic work (specific to grief), openness, vulnerability and sincerity really appealed to me. Also, I wanted to connect with other widows. The zoom calls, workshops, and the community space (where you can talk openly and freely of your experience, ask questions and learn from others who are in a similar boat) – really create a sense of support and companionship.
Inside the Community, no topic is off limits.
We see & hear each other - really & truly.
We honour the depth of pain that is unique to widowhood, from a place of non-judgement & compassion.
We explore identity - how everything shifts and how slowly, this can begin to unravel a journey of profound inner work & yes, even remarkable growth.
We share openly about our partners, our forever love, & our ongoing connection to them.
We honour & centre the body always - through inter-woven guided somatic work & nervous system regulation practices.
We move forward together, our losses & great loves in one hand, life firmly held in the other.
HERE’S WHAT YOU'LL GET WHEN YOU JOIN...
The I See You, Sister Community
You don't have to do this alone.
Our Beautiful Platform & ISYS App
We've built a robust & completely private community platform, just for us. It's kind of like our very own social media space. This is honestly one of the best parts of the Community! It's super easy to navigate & everything inside the community lives here, so it's very convenient. I can't wait to see you inside.
Live Community Calls with Mira
Lean in & receive deeper support as Mira teaches, coaches, & guides community calls. Calls range from topic-specific workshops to support circles to small breakout rooms to somatic sessions - & so much more. Many of our calls are recorded so you can catch the replay if you can't join live. Some are not, to preserve intimacy.
Real & Raw Widow Chat Spaces
These also live inside the ISYS app. Here's where we can connect, share, & receive support 24/7. Ask questions any time and receive ongoing connection & guidance from Mira, as well your fellow community members. Here's where we say all the things we can't say to anyone else - no topic is off limits & zero judgement.
A Growing Collection of Widow Workshops
Available to you inside the Vault the minute you join the Community. Topics include friendship loss, boundaries, & societal grief-illiteracy. Tune-in & watch or listen on-the-go whenever you need them.
Mira's Entire Somatic Video Library
Yup, you heard that right! When you join the Community, you'll get access to Mira's Somatic Video Library, with over 11 hours of pre-recorded somatic content, created specifically with widows in mind.
Guest Expert Speaker Sessions & Panels
We supplement the membership by inviting guest experts in to lead bonus workshops. Stay tuned for our first Guest Panel Discussion on re-partnering as a widow, coming in January.
There Are Also Some Bonuses!
SUPPORT CIRCLES
Led by our lovely Community Mentor, Katherine - these offer an additional opportunity to share & hold space with one another. These are not recorded.
VOICE NOTES WITH MIRA
A brand new offering coming January 2026, think of these like mini-podcast episodes inside our app. Ask me anything & I'll answer.
CURATED ISYS PLAYLIST
There's nothing like music! These are the songs that have most helped me navigate & move through my grief.
HANDOUTS & WORKSHEETS
Go deeper with these totally optional supplemental handouts, worksheets, & journal prompts.
And, you'll get access to...
THE NEXT BREATH
Concrete & non-overwhelming tips for navigating early grief.
CONNECTED
Explore ways to maintain connection with your partner while learning how to live in this new reality.
MORE THAN STRONG
Find your inner courage & fortitude on your own terms, without the toxic platitudes.
FAQ's
WHAT EXACTLY DO I GET TODAY WHEN I JOIN?
WHEN & HOW OFTEN ARE THE LIVE CALLS?
HOW MUCH SOMATIC CONTENT IS THERE IN THE COMMUNITY?
WHAT IF I JUST WANT TO JOIN POURING INTO YOU?
I'M WORRIED I WON'T FIT IN WITH THE OTHER WIDOWS...?
IS THIS TRULY A CANCEL-ANY-TIME MEMBERSHIP?
Meet our Community Mentor, Katherine...
Katherine Brito is a widow, grief coach, & self-love advocate. She offers compassionate grief support for women recreating a life that honours their enduring love and connection to their person.
Katherine leads bonus Support Circles inside the community. She offers such a gentle and understanding energy to the ISYS Community and we are so incredibly lucky to have her!
Katherine’s husband Tony loved playing the piano & cooking… in that specific order. 🤣
If you have been craving a gentle & authentic space to explore your grief…
I'd love for you to join us.
Hope is possible & also - this is so, so hard.
