Take a four-month journey through your loss with a group of your fellow widows.
Hello my beautiful sister.
I see you in this pain and I know what this feels like. It’s okay that it hurts. There is nothing wrong with you. There is nothing that needs fixing.
There’s no expiry date when your grief is no longer valid. You don’t need to turn your emotions around. You don’t need to become more positive.
I get it, this is agonizing. There have been so many moments when I have wanted my grief to disappear.
But I truly believe that integration of our loss happens when we are honest about our experience. When we see ourselves and our grief clearly, without shame or the pressure to be “better”.
And when we do this in community together, the power of connection between grievers is transformative.
What I think we really need are safe spaces to be, exactly as we are. To tell our stories. To be held. To be told, “Me too”, “You’re not alone,” and “I won’t turn away”.
Rebuilding will happen. And in my experience, it doesn’t begin in one magical moment when we are entirely "healed". It happens within and in-between the devastation. It’s all one big messy, murky, wild experience of painful growth and change. And if we’re honest about our experience, that’s when we rebuild our lives authentically.
We all have an internal wisdom.
We are each our own grief expert.
We don’t need pressure and we don’t need to be fixed.
We need connection.
We need to be heard.
We need to be seen.
Exactly as we are.
There is nothing wrong with you. You’re not broken. You’re grieving.
Love, Mira
Grief can make you feel both exquisitely, insignificantly small and unbearably large all at once.
It can show you the darkest parts of yourself at the same time as uncovering the bits you can’t believe how much you love.
It’s about losing everything in a moment.
How the floor opens up in front of you and how it doesn’t entirely close back up again. And how you learn to live with that opening, just beyond your fingertips.
It’s about how the beginning is the end is the beginning. And how life and grief are full of cycles, circling around and overtop of one another.
Rebuilding happens within our grief. Life happens alongside loss. There is nothing to overcome.
This is being here. And being human. This is love.
I created I See You, Sister because I wanted to build a group container where our grief can be examined in a gentle and non-judgmental environment. A grief-literate space where we can each reconnect to our own rhythm in this after-life. Together.
JOIN THE AUTUMN 2023 COHORT HEREAs a member of I See You, Sister, you will be part of a guided journey where we explore:
- Sharing our stories of widowhood in a supportive and loving community
- Recognizing and identifying secondary losses, societal grief-illiteracy, and widely held grief myths
- Uncovering and airing out the messiness of widowhood
- Expressing and embodying the hard emotions
- Openly discussing grief related to our children (or lack of)
- The role of spirituality within our grief experience
- Dating & sexuality
- The grief & trauma held in our bodies
Along with your fellow widows, you will learn about & move into:
- Defining boundaries within your grief
- Discussing the importance of self-love
- Reimagining your future together with your grief
- Reconnecting to your intuition, wisdom, and confidence
- Embodying the energy of transformation and/or building greater attunement with yourself
- Finding nuance and moving forward with your loss and your partner alongside you
BONUS: In addition, you will be introduced to new tools, effective strategies, and knowledge around:
- Somatic body-based practices to help you release trauma stored in your body and communicate to your body that it’s safe
The Finer Details:
The most important part of I See You, Sister, will be our weekly zoom calls, where we will meet online to share our grief experiences and explore the topic areas together.
Tuesday Cohort: Begins on October 10th, 2023.
Each call will be 90-minutes long and will run weekly on Tuesdays from 1:00 - 2:30 PM ET.
This cohort is open to widows only.
Thursday Cohort: Begins on October 12th, 2023.
Each call will be 90-minutes long and will run weekly on Thursdays from 1:00 - 2:30 PM ET.
This cohort is open to both widows + widowers.
In addition to the sixteen weekly zoom sessions, I See You Sister will include:
- Access to an online course platform where all supporting materials, resources, worksheets, and recordings will be conveniently found
- A private chat group, so we can communicate and continue the conversation in-between sessions
- A curated spotify playlist that will help us connect to our grief
- Writing & conversation prompts
- One to two guest facilitators - included within the 16 sessions
- A pre-recorded 60-minute gentle yoga for grief + trauma class, a pre-recorded meditation, and a pre-recorded Qigong class
Client Love...
What are past participants of “I See You, Sister” saying?
Jenny
“When I think back to the very first time I logged in to ‘I See You, Sister’, all I can says is, ‘Wow’. This group completely exceeded my expectations, in terms of how powerful it's been. As a gifted and experienced group facilitator, Mira created this incredible container that immediately felt safe; a space characterized by honesty, genuine understanding, and guidance that steadied me when I felt so untethered in the world. Mira and the other women impacted my grief journey so much, because of how real, honest, and open they all were. Having other people who understand what this is like has changed so much for me. ‘I See You, Sister’ has been a space that’s really allowed me to be open about my experience. It has made me feel sane and grounded. I’m so grateful I joined this group. I learned so much from Mira and I know that she will continue to be an important part of my grief journey.”
Jacque
“I have felt so blessed by Mira and am so grateful for her. Not just what she offers in her work with widows and grievers - but how she is as a person. I’m grateful for her heart. It’s so loving and grounded and sparkling - and I feel blessed to have her in my circle. I honestly feel like so much of my healing has been 'supersonic', on speed dial, and in 'ultra-mode' because of Mira’s group. It will literally stick with me for the rest of my life and I cannot wait to join more New Moon Mira programs and retreats. I just adore Mira. And I know the other women in our group feel the same way. If you are looking for a community that understands the widowhood and grief journey, whether it’s a recent loss or a longer loss, this space is for you.”
Kourtney
“When Mira opened up her group, ‘I See You Sister’, I knew I wanted to join right away. Being a part of a group of women who have experienced the same kind of loss has validated my experience and helped me feel supported. Mira is a wonderful kind, gentle person who brings so much knowledge and experience in grief. She was so good at sharing and teaching us somatic practices and I felt very safe with her, allowing me to open up and be truly honest and vulnerable. ‘I See You, Sister’ is a comfort each week, knowing I can login, talk, listen and be with others who understand what I am going through. I trust Mira so much and I honestly couldn’t imagine taking anything like this group from someone else. I would recommend Mira to anyone who is living with grief. Her knowledge, kindness and support has helped me tremendously on my journey.”
Sarah
“I decided to join ‘I See You, Sister’, so that I could be in a community of grievers and learn more about how to live with my grief and also support my devastated kids. I kept looking to therapists and other professionals to help me but really, I needed other people riding the same waves. ‘I See You, Sister’ has been a support I desperately needed. The programming is informative and serves as a platform for my favorite part - listening to everyone's stories. We start each session with a meditation and then a check in, where we each share what is going on with us. It makes me feel less alone in the world and I find inspiration in the other women and our conversations. It is hard to be a younger widow in a world of couples. Our stuff is just different and everyone in the group ‘gets it’. I look forward to our sessions and really, really hope we can maintain contact. I care about the other women and Mira. They are my fellow widow travelers. Mira, to say I am grateful for your group is an understatement. I am just filled with awe and gratitude for the opportunity to bear witness to the other women's stories and share mine.”
Anna
“Joining ‘I See You, Sister’ has given me the space to be seen and heard. I am part of a community now, I belong. I look forward to the sessions each week. Mira holds space for each of us and we listen and contribute. It is striking that although each of us has a different story and circumstance, there are so many commonalities. We understand and support each other under Mira’s facilitation. Mira facilitates in a gentle way and bears witness to our lives. She is unselfish with her moderation of the group. The topics she has chosen for each session are relevant, real, and thought provoking. Our feelings and our grief are validated and explored. As a result of joining this group, I have gained community and I value each of my fellow widows. I feel seen and no longer feel isolated. If you are widowed, I would highly recommend joining Mira’s group. ‘I See You, Sister’ has made such a positive impact on how I carry my grief and my continuing love for my husband moving forward.”
Breanne
“The ‘I See You, Sister’ group sessions and materials were so well organized. I liked that there was a different topic each week and I enjoyed starting each session with a mindfulness meditation. I felt that I had the space to participate each session and was listened to – but I never felt pressured to contribute if I preferred to be quieter one week. From Mira’s group I got a sense of community. The women in the group were very kind, supportive, comforting, and uplifting. Everyone’s story is so different but the trauma we have all experienced and share is the same. It was comforting to share this experience with other people. Grief is lonely and now, I don't feel as alone in my grief. I strongly recommend this group to others.”
COST
To join "I See You, Sister", choose one of the payment options below. Please note that there will be a max of 12 widows in your cohort, to ensure space for intimate connections to grow.
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Only $138 per week for 16 weeks, meeting live for 90-minute sessions with your cohort (PLUS all the bonuses on the course portal, community forum, writing prompts, handouts, and more!)
All prices in USD
BONUS Program Contributors
Cindy Doire
Yoga & Embodied Trauma Exploration
Cindy Doire is a registered psychotherapist (qualifying), a certified trauma-informed yoga teacher (E-RYT 500), a somatic coach, and an award-winning singer/songwriter. Cindy also has lived experience with deep grief, as her father passed away suddenly when she was 13-years-old. As a therapist, teacher, artist, and coach, Cindy embraces how different every day and moment is, and allows sessions to flow from the here-and-now. Cindy will be guiding us through some gentle yoga and movement practices, as well as teaching us more about trauma and its relationship to our bodies.
Ali Stark
Qigong & Nervous System Regulation
Ali is a certified Qigong instructor of Chow Medical Qigong, Organ Cleansing Qigong (Zhang Fu Gong) and is a Level 1 & 2 Instructor of Radiant Lotus Women’s Qigong. She has been studying Qigong since 2001, teaching since 2009, and managing her own deep grief and chronic pain & illness for many years. Her teaching feels nourishing, gentle, and calming - which is so appreciated within the context of complex grief. We are thrilled to have Ali contributing a Qigong class for grief, trauma, and nervous system regulation to our group.
More Client Testimonials
Charlene
“‘I See You, Sister’ has been amazing. It’s been life changing. The support, the kind and gentle energy, how inspiring and wise the other women are. From the beginning, it was such a gentle and kind-hearted space, where everybody was real and raw. You don't encounter that in society very often. It's hard to find - and it happened so quickly within our group. Joining ‘I See You, Sister’ was a profound and amazing experience. Mira, I am so, so grateful that you do what you do so incredibly well. Thank you.”
Sabrina
“‘I See You, Sister’ was something extremely special in my life and I wish it didn’t have to end. The fact that everybody was able to be so open and vulnerable was such a blessing to me. None of us wanted to be a part of this club, but here we are. I have valued this group so much.”
Anonymous
“I joined ‘I See You, Sister’ because I felt like I was stuck. I didn't know what the future held. This group gave me a renewed sense of strength and purpose. Now I know that I can do this. So, thank you so much Mira and all the other beautiful women in our group. I really needed this reminder. I needed something that would tell me that life would continue.”
Meg
“I'm so incredibly grateful for Mira and ‘I See You, Sister’. I tell my friends about this group all the time, about how happy I am to have found other people who I can talk to and share with, listen to and feel for. ‘I See You, Sister’ has been invaluable for me. It's changed my life. Mira is incredible at what she does. She has a gift, a significant gift. She is a treasure to her fellow widows.”
FAQ's
WHEN DOES THE NEXT COHORT OF I SEE YOU, SISTER BEGIN?
HOW LONG IS EACH COHORT?
WHEN ARE THE WEEKLY ZOOM CALLS FOR THE NEXT COHORT?
I LIVE IN EUROPE / THE UK, CAN I STILL JOIN?
WHERE DO SESSIONS OCCUR?
DO YOU OFFER REFUNDS?
WILL THE CALLS BE RECORDED IF I CAN’T ATTEND ONE WEEK?
WILL YOU RUN A GROUP LIKE THIS FOR OTHER TYPES OF GRIEVERS IN THE FUTURE?
MY PARTNER AND I WEREN’T MARRIED, CAN I JOIN?
DOES IT MATTER WHAT AGE I AM? OR IF MY PARTNER AND I DIDN’T HAVE KIDS?
DO YOU OFFER SCHOLARSHIPS?
I’M IN EARLY GRIEF, CAN I JOIN?
I'M A WIDOWER, CAN I JOIN "I SEE YOU, SISTER"?
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